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MATRIMONY
Marriage is indispensable for every human being. The Indian culture depicted one wife for one man and vice-versa. The elders in the family betroth the marriage. The Vedic Hindu astrology considers marriage as a "Union of two Souls" living for each other. The Hindu ideology regards marriage as a plant, which needs watering, protection, utmost care and preservation for one thousand years.
Marriage makes a man complete in all respects.i.e.He becomes a full man. On getting married, he starts a separate family life with additional responsibilities. He gets recognition in the society. He gives birth to children, takes care of the wife and children and the entire family and becomes an affectionate man. He conducts himself in a respectable way and respects the sentiments of society and elders.
In ancient days, marriages took place among relatives and among known people and neighbours. This culture is undergoing a vast change thanks to the advancement of science and technology, education, infrastructure, sound financial position, invasion of foreign culture and social status. Today, the social awareness has emboldened the youngsters to marry anyone of their choice irrespective of the caste, creed, religion and community. Their choice is dominated by the lust in the physical appearances and at times, the sophisticated culture and rich family status and sound financial status. The flaw in their choice lies not in the parent's upbringing but in the teen age. The age between 16 years and 21 years is vulnerable to sexual habits for both genders. They are unaware of consequences of their actions owing to the immature temperament. We see many young men and women who have self-determined the choice of their spouse and married under the pretext of love, ignoring the wishes of their parents are repenting now and lead a tearful life covertly. Such couple face lot of inconveniences in the society and they have lost the affection and love of their near and dear ones. Therefore, in order to ensure the smooth moving of the teen ages, the natal horoscope needs to be studied, analysed and assessed and proper remedies be undertaken as prescribed by the Vedic Astrology.
The olden culture has now changed to a vast extent. Today, in this world of refined culture, the girls have an upper hand and a higher say due to their exposure to the world events and activities and due to the individual earnings, higher education and their self-determination to lead an independent life on their own. The Matrimonial matchmaking compatibility evolved by the Vedic Astrology is disregarded and ignored in toto and marriages are being made in street corners.
It is a common feature to see married couples in family courts vying each other for divorce. There is a large-scale increase in adulteries, illicit sexual connections, bigamy, elopement, etc. Marital miseries such as death of spouse, deserted life, unsatisfied married life, impotency, etc are ill fated. Careful analyses of all such people's natal horoscope disclose the non-existence of vital compatibilities which are a must for a happy married life. The prime compatibility of 'sexual type' was not available among them. In spite of several ups and downs in married life, it is the sexual compatibility, which holds the couple together for good.
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